Giving Your Power Away NOT! 😉
Oct 08, 2025Giving your power away is subtle, yet it has profound consequences for serving your purpose + attracting what you deeply desire.
Let me give you an example.
I so "desperately" wanted to be in an aligned relationship that I used to hide who I am so that the potential mate would be attracted to me. The fears were:
- I am running out of time. I want to have a child, etc.
The lack mentality.
With my now partner, I played no games. No pretense. No "trying to be good." I was me.
I told him about the confusion I had at the time about spiritual and mainstream, the spiritual awakening, all my background, dreams, and fears. I also shared numerous awkward and funny stories about connecting with spirit, receiving messages, and at times, approaching strangers and sharing those messages.
I waited for WHEN he would leave and WHEN he would run!
He didn't. 🙂
He stayed, and stayed, and stayed, and found me incredibly irresistible and beautiful. And that is still the case 6,5 years later.
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I have stopped doing the same "bending into a pretzel, people pleasing" in my business.
I used to think:
- I need to serve and help everyone, in the process diluting my true gifts and talents.
- I need to be someone I am not to get paid (an artifact of old work conditioning).
Well, as you might guess, that didn't work at all!!!
My favorite clients, with whom I vibe, laugh, enjoy the work, and see the biggest results, are those with whom I can be myself.
I don't need them to accept me or validate me, but it's a shared appreciation. And it makes work fun, enjoyable, and effective.
And that was incredibly hard:
to STOP HIDING & stay in my energy.
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To clarify.
I am not talking about petty things:
- for instance, I often don't care about the minute details, colors, food, or how exactly things are done. I am not talking about micro management.
- I am focusing on the fundamental, heart-centered, core aspects of being yourself. Embodying it. That's what makes you YOU!!!
And that is what makes YOU magnetic, attractive, irresistible
- not to everyone!!!
But those who are meant to be in your life. So that you can walk your purpose.
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This month of October, I invite you to join the Spiritual Collective gathering on
STAYING IN YOUR ENERGY. We'll be doing just that: losing fear of being yourself. Especially if you are sensitive, empathic, and deeply caring - it's easy to forget yourself a bit!!!
When: October 19, 2 pm EST
Where: in Arlington, MA + on Zoom (replays available if you are a part of the Spiritual Collective). This will be the last in-person gathering of the year.
Register here either for this event or for all the amazing practices that are now available in the Collective.
Keep shining,
Xx,
Mariya