Self-Worth in Action
Jun 19, 2026
Whenever I set an intention for the month - in Spiritual Collective - I usually work through it myself 😉 No surprise 😉
SELF-WORTH!!!
This is what happened...
I had a lady who booked a two-hour healing session with me. We had a 30-minute conversation beforehand, with all the details. On the day of the session, she didn't show up -- no text, no call. Silence ...
It happened a few times before - with other clients. Not the exact scenario, but a variation of it.
Only this time, I really went out of my way to prepare for the session. We had just renovated and created a new healing space. I was taking care of the final details for the session. I also hired a babysitter for the kids.
And silence is what I received? Not even the courtesy of a cancellation call?
I had some emotions ... you bet!
After talking it through with a friend, this is what I realized:
I did NOT communicate my needs beforehand.
Ouch!
As highly sensitive people, we do it often:
Not wanting to bother others with our needs.
Assuming others automatically know our needs.
What if they think I am too difficult?
I sat down and became clear about what I actually need:
- For all new clients, I ask for the first session to be prepaid.
- I inform all new clients about my cancellation policy (48 hours).
It's quite simple, actually - not too complicated. But clarity is GOLD!!!!
You know what happened?
Just a few days later, a new client inquired. I communicated with clarity.
They pre-paid me.
That's it.
Simple.
Clear.
Working.
I enjoyed having a session with them.
Self-worth in action!
You know where the trip-up happens?
⚪ feeling you don't deserve it
⚪ staying stuck in hurt and identifying with a role of a victim.
⚪ agreeing with how people treat you. Thinking that your self-worth is externally sourced. Measuring your self-worth by external events. Instead of taking your power back - to yourself. And moving forward from a centered place.
⚪ not communicating.
Let's dive deeper in the upcoming SELF-WORTH group healing session.
Join on June 27th at 2 pm EST online (recorded).
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Mariya