Technology of Becoming ❗❗❗
Jan 28, 2026
Change doesn't happen overnight - it's a process. If you want something different in your life - in a relationship, business, health, parenting ... know that it's possible, and it's created through small shifts.
The space between your old and your new self is the space of BECOMING.
It's not passive waiting. Don't wait for your partner or for your business. Passive waiting can drive anyone crazy!!! And it creates tons of overthinking and self-judgement.
Rather, embrace this period as an active act of becoming - it turns it into a meaningful and purposeful process. It supports your success.
IN RELATIONSHIP.
Attracting the One or shifting the current relationship happens through BECOMING.
I remember leaving my marriage and being terrified of being alone and in limbo. What eventually brought the right relationship is not waiting, but actively engaging in
- healing
- meditation (aka regulating my nervous system)
- finding my own wholeness
- building a deep relationship with God within, so that external triggers don't destroy me
- learning to communicate
- forgiving myself, others ...
- learning to respect men.
In retrospect, I wish I were more at peace as I was "waiting" for my partner. I didn't know at the time that BECOMING guarantees success. And BECOMING is different from passive waiting and external searching. In fact, constant searching wastes energy and time and brings anxiety and worry.
The Universe doesn't punish you during the period of waiting. It's allowing you to evolve, grow, and mature.
Now, the trick is to take this opportunity rather than waste it. In fact, the time of waiting can shrink if you spend it with intention and wisdom.
The same approach goes for BUSINESS OR WORK.
It's neither passive waiting nor frantic pursuing. Inner alignment is way more important. And it happens through
- regulating the nervous system
- knowing yourself
- developing healthy habits
- establishing a routine
- building character
- getting clear on values and priorities.
The process of becoming in BUSINESS is priceless. And when you are Soul-Led, that's the only way to guarantee a sustainable success on your own terms.
Not success that drives you to overwork and lose yourself in the process, for the sake of external accolades. But the kind of success that's deeply regulated and mature. And aligned with purpose.
Overthinking is a symptom of frantic energy in the process of BECOMING. And when you flip it towards alignment, acceptance, and devotion, then daily routine and life become enjoyable and sustainable.
This month's topic in the Spiritual Collective is
RELEASE OVERTHINKING, AND OPEN TO LOVE, ACCEPTANCE, & DEVOTION
And this applies to the area of life that matters to you. Join me and others this Saturday, online.
January 24th at 2 pm EST
For a group healing session.
Look forward to seeing you there,
Xx,
Mariya